1 00:00:08,000 --> 00:00:09,760 We're on day eleven and it's going well. 2 00:00:11,760 --> 00:00:13,440 Just twelve days ago... 3 00:00:13,440 --> 00:00:16,600 ...I would have anyone who told me that, declared insane. 4 00:00:16,600 --> 00:00:19,040 But these days I hardly think about sex anymore. 5 00:00:34,000 --> 00:00:35,200 {\an8}We're almost there. 6 00:00:45,680 --> 00:00:47,960 Where are we? Do you know that, Santos? 7 00:00:51,920 --> 00:00:53,680 Perhaps in the forest? 8 00:00:56,440 --> 00:01:00,200 Okay, now you can take them off! 9 00:01:06,280 --> 00:01:07,000 {\an8}Wow. 10 00:01:09,840 --> 00:01:10,680 Did you rent them? 11 00:01:11,160 --> 00:01:11,960 Purchased. 12 00:01:13,560 --> 00:01:14,360 {\an8}Was? 13 00:01:16,600 --> 00:01:18,080 {\an8}You can set up a small studio here. 14 00:01:18,080 --> 00:01:20,400 {\an8}A trampoline? Yay! 15 00:01:22,600 --> 00:01:24,880 Hey, you're crazy. That's way too expensive. 16 00:01:25,840 --> 00:01:28,840 {\an8}You nutcase. Thanks! 17 00:01:29,240 --> 00:01:30,440 You're welcome. 18 00:01:43,360 --> 00:01:52,040 Do you know how many stars there are? against the blue sky? 19 00:01:52,040 --> 00:02:01,440 Do you know how many clouds travel far? all over the world. 20 00:02:01,440 --> 00:02:09,120 {\an8} God the Lord has numbered them, that he is not lacking anything. 21 00:02:09,120 --> 00:02:12,360 Do you know how much... ? 22 00:02:21,160 --> 00:02:23,680 I don't think he's ever been there. I fell asleep so quickly. 23 00:02:25,840 --> 00:02:27,480 God, it's so beautiful here. 24 00:02:30,320 --> 00:02:32,400 And it's fully furnished. 25 00:02:34,160 --> 00:02:36,120 You don't have to do that, Luis. 26 00:02:38,080 --> 00:02:39,120 But that's what I wanted. 27 00:02:41,960 --> 00:02:42,840 It was a bargain. 28 00:02:44,720 --> 00:02:45,520 Really! 29 00:02:46,120 --> 00:02:47,040 Through acquaintances. 30 00:03:08,800 --> 00:03:10,800 Let's just stay here. 31 00:03:11,920 --> 00:03:14,040 We're never going back to Cologne. 32 00:03:14,720 --> 00:03:16,600 There are no more 9Bs. 33 00:03:19,360 --> 00:03:20,440 Marco again? 34 00:03:22,320 --> 00:03:23,120 Yes. 35 00:03:24,640 --> 00:03:28,440 He masks his insecurity by... that he's acting like a tough guy. 36 00:03:30,160 --> 00:03:31,800 You have no idea what that's like. 37 00:03:34,480 --> 00:03:36,560 Just look around you, when you walk along the street. 38 00:03:37,720 --> 00:03:39,320 All you see are tits and asses. 39 00:03:41,080 --> 00:03:42,600 What kind of argument is that? 40 00:03:45,600 --> 00:03:50,000 Well, 15-year-old boys are just so alone. with their hormones and their penises. 41 00:03:52,200 --> 00:03:55,640 When I was 15, I constantly and He jerked off like crazy. 42 00:03:57,560 --> 00:03:58,880 And when I had sex for the first time, 43 00:03:58,880 --> 00:04:02,280 It was like a revelation and I wanted this all along. Over and over again. 44 00:04:02,680 --> 00:04:03,880 And at any cost. 45 00:04:06,400 --> 00:04:09,680 It's like with a dog, when you hold a bone in front of their nose and... 46 00:04:17,480 --> 00:04:19,440 I believe, I've never told anyone that before. 47 00:04:23,760 --> 00:04:24,760 Marie. 48 00:04:27,240 --> 00:04:29,320 You don't even know who I am. 49 00:04:34,000 --> 00:04:35,000 I love you. 50 00:04:41,960 --> 00:04:43,360 Do you want to move in with me? 51 00:04:53,440 --> 00:04:54,280 Um. 52 00:04:56,640 --> 00:05:00,160 It just feels so incredibly amazing You're doing well. 53 00:05:03,720 --> 00:05:05,240 Yes, it does. 54 00:05:06,520 --> 00:05:07,680 You feel good. 55 00:05:53,840 --> 00:05:55,400 Shall we pull out the sofa? 56 00:05:59,760 --> 00:06:03,320 Yes. We'll do it right away. 57 00:06:05,400 --> 00:06:07,520 Now. Immediately. 58 00:06:28,600 --> 00:06:29,560 Oh, your phone. 59 00:06:29,560 --> 00:06:30,440 Oh thank you. 60 00:07:12,760 --> 00:07:16,400 Hey, good morning! When did you crawl in here? 61 00:07:42,000 --> 00:07:44,360 Hey, what are you doing there? 62 00:07:44,360 --> 00:07:48,240 Oh, hey. Sorry. I didn't mean to wake you. I'm afraid I have to go. The lawyer called. 63 00:07:51,120 --> 00:07:53,320 Oh God, but not because of... Not because of the video, right? 64 00:07:54,960 --> 00:07:57,800 I don't know, but I don't think so. Certainly not. 65 00:07:58,680 --> 00:07:59,480 Okay. 66 00:07:59,480 --> 00:08:00,280 Definitely not. 67 00:08:01,560 --> 00:08:03,160 So, are you staying or coming along? 68 00:08:04,200 --> 00:08:05,000 There's still room. 69 00:08:05,920 --> 00:08:07,800 What a shame to waste such a beautiful day. I can pick you up tomorrow. 70 00:08:08,520 --> 00:08:10,800 Oh my god, that was... That was so stupid of me. 71 00:08:12,480 --> 00:08:16,520 Oh, don't worry about it. So, are you coming along? 72 00:08:19,160 --> 00:08:21,680 Santos? We're going! 73 00:08:22,400 --> 00:08:25,200 But I don't want to! I want to stay here. 74 00:08:25,640 --> 00:08:28,000 Yes, but we have to go now. Please get dressed! 75 00:08:28,000 --> 00:08:29,840 No, I don't want to. 76 00:08:31,440 --> 00:08:35,240 You can go. I can stay here. 77 00:08:39,440 --> 00:08:42,040 Can I have Nunu? 78 00:08:44,840 --> 00:08:45,680 Thanks. 79 00:09:07,480 --> 00:09:08,520 Will you get in touch? 80 00:09:11,440 --> 00:09:12,280 Bye. 81 00:10:03,360 --> 00:10:05,160 Do you fancy some cake? 82 00:10:06,360 --> 00:10:07,320 I made it myself. 83 00:10:08,680 --> 00:10:09,600 What are you doing here? 84 00:10:18,320 --> 00:10:19,840 Do you have such small forks? 85 00:10:22,480 --> 00:10:23,840 Take your damn cake and get lost! 86 00:10:33,960 --> 00:10:34,920 Not feeling well? 87 00:10:38,640 --> 00:10:40,120 You love surprises. 88 00:10:42,360 --> 00:10:44,000 I have another one for you. 89 00:10:48,360 --> 00:10:49,920 Did you withdraw your complaint? 90 00:10:51,240 --> 00:10:53,040 I'll do it. Don't worry. 91 00:10:57,880 --> 00:11:01,200 You know, your fairy tale about the Is sexual coercion null and void? 92 00:11:01,720 --> 00:11:03,760 At the latest since you voluntarily joined You slept with me. 93 00:11:04,480 --> 00:11:06,040 I have all your text messages as proof. 94 00:11:06,560 --> 00:11:10,320 If you don't stop immediately, If you harass me, I will report you. 95 00:11:11,080 --> 00:11:12,160 How to harass? 96 00:11:12,640 --> 00:11:13,880 Because you're bothering me! 97 00:11:15,360 --> 00:11:16,880 This is something we both want to achieve. 98 00:11:25,080 --> 00:11:25,880 Out! 99 00:11:28,000 --> 00:11:28,800 Go now! 100 00:11:31,200 --> 00:11:32,240 Go now. 101 00:11:32,240 --> 00:11:33,200 Luis! Luis! 102 00:11:33,200 --> 00:11:34,000 Go now! 103 00:11:34,000 --> 00:11:39,240 I was just kidding, okay? I have the The complaint has already been withdrawn. It was withdrawn yesterday. 104 00:11:41,520 --> 00:11:42,360 You lie. 105 00:11:42,960 --> 00:11:48,880 No! No! No! Please. 106 00:11:48,880 --> 00:11:50,560 If you kick me out, then... 107 00:11:50,560 --> 00:11:51,600 Stop it! 108 00:11:52,440 --> 00:11:53,240 Luis. 109 00:11:53,480 --> 00:11:54,280 Luis! 110 00:12:34,320 --> 00:12:37,160 This contact person is temporarily unavailable. unreachable 111 00:12:37,160 --> 00:12:39,640 You will be notified of your call via SMS. 112 00:14:20,360 --> 00:14:21,200 Surprise. 113 00:15:06,640 --> 00:15:07,680 Shall we go upstairs? 114 00:15:52,120 --> 00:15:54,280 Hey, hey! 115 00:16:00,560 --> 00:16:01,360 I'm sorry. 116 00:16:02,400 --> 00:16:03,200 I'm sorry. 117 00:16:04,400 --> 00:16:05,200 I am so sorry. 118 00:16:06,840 --> 00:16:07,640 Stop it! 119 00:16:21,400 --> 00:16:22,200 What's up? 120 00:16:24,240 --> 00:16:25,040 I... 121 00:16:31,320 --> 00:16:32,120 I have... 122 00:16:35,600 --> 00:16:38,000 I'm sorry...I have... 123 00:16:38,600 --> 00:16:40,200 I slept with another woman. 124 00:16:47,400 --> 00:16:48,200 With whom? 125 00:16:51,280 --> 00:16:52,080 With Verena? 126 00:16:53,240 --> 00:16:54,040 Yes. 127 00:16:58,200 --> 00:16:59,000 Not only... 128 00:17:00,360 --> 00:17:03,640 With Verena and other women. 129 00:17:05,680 --> 00:17:06,600 Prostitutes. 130 00:17:08,720 --> 00:17:09,560 And... 131 00:17:12,800 --> 00:17:15,120 I'm sorry. I didn't actually want that. 132 00:17:16,080 --> 00:17:19,000 I can't control myself. 133 00:17:19,000 --> 00:17:22,080 What does that mean? That none of this is happening. Was it your fault, or what? 134 00:17:22,080 --> 00:17:25,160 That's not what I mean. You don't understand what I mean. 135 00:17:25,160 --> 00:17:29,120 I'm a... That's always how it is with me! For me, it's... 136 00:17:29,120 --> 00:17:31,080 I always break everything. 137 00:17:33,760 --> 00:17:34,560 Marie: Stop it! 138 00:17:37,880 --> 00:17:39,720 I had hoped things would be different with you. 139 00:18:23,000 --> 00:18:23,920 Mama? 140 00:18:23,920 --> 00:18:28,360 Marie, I thought I'd call about Easter. Tell me, do you still not eat meat? 141 00:18:30,000 --> 00:18:33,280 Mom, I'm currently on the go. I'll call you back later. Okay? 142 00:18:34,160 --> 00:18:37,240 Okay, this weekend? With Santos? 143 00:18:37,920 --> 00:18:39,320 Yes, I promise. 144 00:18:41,720 --> 00:18:42,520 See you then. 145 00:18:42,520 --> 00:18:43,320 Yes. 146 00:19:28,600 --> 00:19:32,000 Birthday good luck 147 00:19:32,520 --> 00:19:35,560 Birthday good luck 148 00:19:35,560 --> 00:19:40,640 Happy birthday, happy birthday! birthday good luck. 149 00:19:40,640 --> 00:19:43,200 Do I look that old already, or why are you crying? 150 00:19:45,320 --> 00:19:49,320 It's over. Luis cheated on me. 151 00:19:50,080 --> 00:19:50,880 Was? 152 00:19:51,920 --> 00:19:52,720 With whom? 153 00:19:54,920 --> 00:19:55,720 Verena. 154 00:19:57,880 --> 00:19:58,680 Fuck. 155 00:19:59,560 --> 00:20:00,800 What an asshole. 156 00:20:02,040 --> 00:20:03,560 I am so sorry. 157 00:20:07,760 --> 00:20:09,920 I don't want to ruin your day. 158 00:20:09,920 --> 00:20:11,680 I think it's better if I stay here. 159 00:20:12,560 --> 00:20:16,240 Absolutely not. You're coming with dancing. 160 00:20:16,880 --> 00:20:20,040 Don't let this now deter you. Fucking fuckers, ruining the evening. 161 00:20:21,080 --> 00:20:22,600 Let's make it nice, okay? 162 00:20:25,080 --> 00:20:25,880 Okay. 163 00:21:42,800 --> 00:21:48,440 Yes, it's probably the flu. I'll hand it over. I'll send you the sick note as soon as I have it. 164 00:21:51,160 --> 00:21:51,960 Thanks. 165 00:22:38,000 --> 00:22:39,560 Have you checked social media today? 166 00:22:39,560 --> 00:22:41,680 No, why? Is the campaign already online? 167 00:22:42,400 --> 00:22:43,760 That's what I wanted to talk to you about. 168 00:22:54,280 --> 00:22:55,080 Damned! 169 00:22:55,080 --> 00:22:55,880 Yes. 170 00:22:57,960 --> 00:22:58,760 Well done. 171 00:23:00,480 --> 00:23:04,440 Sexist garbage. Invented by employees like Luis Hecker, 172 00:23:04,440 --> 00:23:08,120 "Hashtag" that sexually traumatizes women. "Exclamation mark" 173 00:23:10,240 --> 00:23:12,440 This plays into our view regarding the advertisement but only into the hands. 174 00:23:13,120 --> 00:23:16,400 But I thought that was settled. Verena withdrew the complaint after all. 175 00:23:16,400 --> 00:23:19,680 She has retracted her statement. She cannot withdraw the complaint. 176 00:23:19,680 --> 00:23:24,200 The police must be called here because of the severity of the The investigation into the alleged offense will continue ex officio. 177 00:23:26,080 --> 00:23:27,200 Yes. 178 00:23:27,200 --> 00:23:29,880 Yes, I am truly very sorry, Mr. Hecker. what you have to go through. 179 00:23:29,880 --> 00:23:32,680 At the same time, she gave us the A perfect setup was provided. 180 00:23:32,680 --> 00:23:36,760 We'll simply turn the tables. We'll show them. for defamation and perjury. 181 00:23:36,760 --> 00:23:38,960 And we are also suing them still for compensation for pain and suffering. 182 00:23:40,760 --> 00:23:42,880 It won't work. Verena has no money. 183 00:23:43,480 --> 00:23:46,160 Then we obtain a title And as soon as she has money, we'll get it. 184 00:23:50,000 --> 00:23:50,800 It's all ok? 185 00:23:52,760 --> 00:23:53,920 Hi you two. 186 00:23:55,560 --> 00:23:56,880 Did you unbuckle yourself? 187 00:24:00,840 --> 00:24:03,320 How are you, Melanie? Is the morning sickness gone? 188 00:24:03,680 --> 00:24:05,280 You've become as round as a ball. 189 00:24:05,280 --> 00:24:07,440 Yes, you know, everything just tastes so delicious. 190 00:24:07,440 --> 00:24:09,440 The main thing is that you still fit into your wedding dress. 191 00:24:10,520 --> 00:24:11,360 Do you already have one? 192 00:24:11,360 --> 00:24:13,840 Yes, I bought one with my mom last Saturday. 193 00:24:13,840 --> 00:24:15,320 Give her my warmest regards, okay? 194 00:24:17,360 --> 00:24:20,640 This wedding DJ has now cancelled. 195 00:25:07,720 --> 00:25:08,560 Marie? 196 00:25:10,640 --> 00:25:11,440 I am full. 197 00:25:11,440 --> 00:25:14,760 You look so unhealthy. I recently noticed... I read something about eating disorders. 198 00:25:15,120 --> 00:25:19,760 Wow, a crane! This is truly the very best gift. 199 00:25:19,760 --> 00:25:22,320 The Easter Bunny will be there But he'll be happy when I tell him that. 200 00:25:23,400 --> 00:25:24,200 Come on. 201 00:25:27,000 --> 00:25:28,400 Ah, by the way, I have something for you too. 202 00:25:31,080 --> 00:25:32,400 For me? 203 00:25:34,400 --> 00:25:36,080 Uh, I don't have anything for you. 204 00:25:36,080 --> 00:25:36,880 That's okay. 205 00:25:42,000 --> 00:25:46,400 You always liked him so much, didn't you? Grandma would definitely have wanted you to wear it. 206 00:25:48,240 --> 00:25:49,480 Thanks, Mom. 207 00:25:50,360 --> 00:25:52,400 That's really sweet of you. Thank you so much! 208 00:25:53,760 --> 00:25:54,880 That's fine. 209 00:25:56,400 --> 00:25:57,320 It's great that you're happy. 210 00:25:57,320 --> 00:26:00,960 May I call Dad and show him the crane? 211 00:26:01,240 --> 00:26:02,600 We'll do that later, honey, okay? 212 00:26:03,360 --> 00:26:05,760 David would have been very welcome. 213 00:26:06,880 --> 00:26:07,680 Mama. 214 00:26:07,680 --> 00:26:10,960 Why can't people today Going through thick and thin together? 215 00:26:10,960 --> 00:26:13,280 Hm? I hope so. You had other plans. 216 00:26:15,640 --> 00:26:16,720 How is Julius doing? 217 00:26:17,040 --> 00:26:17,840 Luis. 218 00:26:17,840 --> 00:26:19,720 Luis, of course. Luis! 219 00:26:20,320 --> 00:26:24,640 Luis bought a house for his mother, with a trampoline for me. 220 00:26:25,120 --> 00:26:28,280 Really? I didn't know anything about that. 221 00:26:28,280 --> 00:26:32,200 This is... Well, it's not a house. It's a cabin in the woods, though. 222 00:26:38,440 --> 00:26:40,480 {\an8}Do you want to tuck eggs? Come on. 223 00:27:12,280 --> 00:27:13,080 Marie? 224 00:27:16,880 --> 00:27:18,280 Can you answer a few questions for me? 225 00:27:20,720 --> 00:27:22,920 Yes. Yes, of course. 226 00:27:25,080 --> 00:27:29,720 Have you ever thought, That sex or certain stimuli control you? 227 00:27:33,600 --> 00:27:34,720 What kind of questions are these? 228 00:27:36,400 --> 00:27:38,000 Have you ever thought that you 229 00:27:38,000 --> 00:27:41,320 because of your sexual behavior or Do you need help with your thoughts? 230 00:27:51,760 --> 00:27:52,560 Yes. 231 00:27:54,880 --> 00:27:58,600 Don't you care about your well-being? or that of your family or others 232 00:27:58,600 --> 00:28:00,640 when you satisfy your sexual needs? 233 00:28:09,120 --> 00:28:10,600 What really happened to Verena? 234 00:28:14,000 --> 00:28:16,040 Nothing she didn't want. You have to believe me. 235 00:28:23,320 --> 00:28:24,720 Do you think you're a sex addict? 236 00:28:31,560 --> 00:28:33,200 Yes, perhaps. 237 00:28:37,200 --> 00:28:38,080 You need help. 238 00:29:11,120 --> 00:29:11,960 Luis: Marie? 239 00:29:13,120 --> 00:29:13,920 And? 240 00:29:15,400 --> 00:29:16,200 I... 241 00:29:16,640 --> 00:29:18,120 I would do anything. 242 00:29:20,320 --> 00:29:21,160 Okay? 243 00:29:22,480 --> 00:29:23,360 Everything. 244 00:29:43,720 --> 00:29:44,520 Hey. 245 00:29:46,080 --> 00:29:46,920 Hi. 246 00:30:28,760 --> 00:30:32,360 May I ask how many of the ten questions Did you answer yes? 247 00:30:34,680 --> 00:30:35,520 Nine. 248 00:30:44,080 --> 00:30:46,560 We therefore believe that Luis is a sex addict. 249 00:30:47,280 --> 00:30:49,960 I would like to add, I find the term somewhat strong. 250 00:30:51,000 --> 00:30:52,240 I'm not a pervert or anything. 251 00:30:53,320 --> 00:30:54,320 That's not what I meant at all. 252 00:30:55,480 --> 00:30:58,160 But you lose control. 253 00:31:00,440 --> 00:31:04,000 I am married to an alcoholic father. He's grown up. He's losing control. 254 00:31:04,000 --> 00:31:05,560 But for me, it's something completely different. 255 00:31:07,760 --> 00:31:10,120 But if that's not pathological, what you're doing there... 256 00:31:11,600 --> 00:31:13,560 Then it's simply despicable opposite me. 257 00:31:15,200 --> 00:31:19,280 I'd like to chime in here. That you are familiar with the term sex addiction 258 00:31:19,280 --> 00:31:21,000 I can certainly understand if you don't like it. 259 00:31:21,600 --> 00:31:25,680 In a therapeutic context, we speak of a hypersexuality. 260 00:31:26,600 --> 00:31:31,200 This can have very different causes, which we would then address in therapy. 261 00:31:31,720 --> 00:31:35,560 These sessions do not normally take place. together with the partner. 262 00:31:36,040 --> 00:31:40,120 In terms of the healing process, it is not always It is advisable to share everything with your partner. 263 00:31:41,440 --> 00:31:46,400 However, they had spoken on the phone Registered for sex therapy for couples. 264 00:31:47,240 --> 00:31:49,720 Exactly. Couldn't we do both? 265 00:31:50,680 --> 00:31:53,360 Yes, of course. There are various possibilities. 266 00:31:54,200 --> 00:31:59,080 What I would definitely recommend to you is... These are meetings of Sex Addicts Anonymous. 267 00:31:59,080 --> 00:32:00,800 That sounds good, yes. 268 00:32:01,920 --> 00:32:05,880 I would recommend a twelve-step group to them. Recommended for partners and family members. 269 00:32:09,040 --> 00:32:10,760 It's simply about supporting them. 270 00:32:11,720 --> 00:32:14,960 I'll give you a brochure with and they can look at them at home in peace and quiet. 271 00:32:16,120 --> 00:32:18,720 Do you want to go into therapy, Mr. Hecker? 272 00:32:20,680 --> 00:32:21,520 Secure. 273 00:32:27,280 --> 00:32:28,240 What if it doesn't help? 274 00:32:29,840 --> 00:32:30,680 What if... 275 00:32:32,160 --> 00:32:33,920 I think you deserve better, Marie. 276 00:32:36,400 --> 00:32:37,800 Of course that helps. 277 00:32:40,200 --> 00:32:41,280 Watch out, you're moving in with me. 278 00:32:44,080 --> 00:32:46,480 And then you run the program. 279 00:32:47,560 --> 00:32:49,720 We're doing this therapy together. 280 00:32:50,920 --> 00:32:54,960 And there is nothing between us. No more secrets. Not to Verena, not to anything at all. 281 00:32:54,960 --> 00:32:57,040 To give up now, before we've even started, That's nonsense. 282 00:32:59,360 --> 00:33:01,320 Or don't you want a second chance? 283 00:33:02,160 --> 00:33:03,000 But. 284 00:33:05,480 --> 00:33:06,280 But. 285 00:33:20,440 --> 00:33:24,600 This morning on the S-Bahn I saw a I saw a woman who made me incredibly nervous. 286 00:33:26,760 --> 00:33:30,320 I caught myself doing it, like I had fantasies about sleeping with her. 287 00:33:33,960 --> 00:33:37,480 My wife and I are going through a phase through abstinence. 288 00:33:39,160 --> 00:33:40,440 We even keep a tally. 289 00:33:43,360 --> 00:33:45,720 Every day, another mark is added, like in prison. 290 00:33:47,000 --> 00:33:48,920 It feels just like being in prison. 291 00:33:50,720 --> 00:33:52,160 It was my decision. 292 00:33:53,720 --> 00:33:55,320 I wanted to be sexually sober, 293 00:33:56,280 --> 00:33:59,040 so as not to fall into my fantasy, while I sleep with her. 294 00:34:00,480 --> 00:34:01,280 Yes. 295 00:34:03,400 --> 00:34:06,200 I don't want to be with just any woman. Having sex on the S-Bahn. 296 00:34:07,400 --> 00:34:09,360 While I'm having sex with my own wife. 297 00:34:17,960 --> 00:34:19,160 Your first meeting? 298 00:34:20,880 --> 00:34:21,680 Yes. 299 00:34:24,600 --> 00:34:25,400 Luis. 300 00:34:26,040 --> 00:34:26,840 Paul. 301 00:34:29,840 --> 00:34:31,000 May I ask you something? 302 00:34:31,800 --> 00:34:33,000 What does sexually sober mean? 303 00:34:33,640 --> 00:34:34,480 Never again sex? 304 00:34:36,320 --> 00:34:38,800 So, no sex with oneself. 305 00:34:39,760 --> 00:34:41,200 And none with another person. 306 00:34:41,760 --> 00:34:44,360 Except with your steady partner or your steady partner. 307 00:34:44,760 --> 00:34:47,080 Okay. Never again will I have sex with myself. 308 00:34:49,480 --> 00:34:50,680 Do you already have a sponsor? 309 00:34:51,440 --> 00:34:52,240 Uh, no. 310 00:34:54,160 --> 00:34:58,200 Well, I could offer you that, Luis. 311 00:34:58,200 --> 00:35:01,280 Especially in the beginning, a Close monitoring is very helpful. 312 00:35:05,480 --> 00:35:10,280 You can call me anytime. I am available day and night. 313 00:35:12,960 --> 00:35:13,760 Thanks. 314 00:35:18,920 --> 00:35:20,320 Hey, are you home yet? 315 00:35:21,560 --> 00:35:25,000 Yes, I wasn't working. I needed a day to myself. 316 00:35:26,320 --> 00:35:27,440 Hey, can we just... 317 00:35:29,920 --> 00:35:31,040 Okay, you're welcome. 318 00:35:31,760 --> 00:35:32,560 No, you do it. 319 00:35:36,560 --> 00:35:38,680 Luis and I have reconciled. 320 00:35:42,080 --> 00:35:43,400 Have you forgiven him for that? 321 00:35:45,120 --> 00:35:49,800 We found out that Luis is a sex addict. He is and is now undergoing therapy. 322 00:35:53,800 --> 00:35:55,400 Cool excuse to sleep around. 323 00:35:56,320 --> 00:35:59,000 This is an illness and it can be cured. 324 00:36:01,120 --> 00:36:03,360 Have you been tested for STDs yet? 325 00:36:06,200 --> 00:36:07,240 Do you have? 326 00:36:07,240 --> 00:36:08,080 Yes, I have! 327 00:36:11,000 --> 00:36:12,680 We've decided that Luis will move in here. 328 00:36:13,800 --> 00:36:14,600 Was? 329 00:36:24,160 --> 00:36:25,840 Are you throwing me out right now? 330 00:36:26,320 --> 00:36:28,080 No, I thought... 331 00:36:28,080 --> 00:36:29,400 Because of a guy who's a sex addict 332 00:36:29,400 --> 00:36:32,320 and also a procedure at the Backe is charged with sexual assault. 333 00:36:32,680 --> 00:36:34,440 Luis is innocent. 334 00:36:35,000 --> 00:36:39,400 And besides, the woman is completely insane. which has just catapulted itself out of the running. 335 00:36:43,680 --> 00:36:45,320 Everyone deserves a second chance. 336 00:36:54,640 --> 00:36:57,200 Are you sure you don't would you like to stay a little longer? 337 00:36:58,000 --> 00:36:59,080 Come on now. 338 00:37:04,680 --> 00:37:07,800 This is all very difficult for me right now. I'm just trying to 339 00:37:07,800 --> 00:37:08,880 to save my relationship. 340 00:37:19,800 --> 00:37:21,840 Santos wanted to give you this. 341 00:37:37,240 --> 00:37:40,960 I hope everything works out. how you imagine it. 342 00:37:44,400 --> 00:37:45,200 Thanks. 343 00:37:47,440 --> 00:37:48,960 Do you need any more help with anything? 344 00:37:48,960 --> 00:37:49,760 No. 345 00:37:57,400 --> 00:37:59,320 We'll get the rest in a moment. 346 00:38:26,440 --> 00:38:28,080 First say the secret word. 347 00:38:28,080 --> 00:38:29,160 Spinach salad. 348 00:38:29,160 --> 00:38:29,960 Them! 349 00:38:30,960 --> 00:38:32,880 Hey Santos, no playing ball in here! 350 00:38:33,000 --> 00:38:34,840 But that wasn't me. 351 00:38:36,120 --> 00:38:37,600 Where is all your furniture? 352 00:38:37,920 --> 00:38:38,720 Stored. 353 00:38:39,280 --> 00:38:41,320 Maybe we'll both grow bigger again. 354 00:38:41,640 --> 00:38:45,720 Marie, what did you do to that idiot? He suddenly seems like a normal person. 355 00:38:45,720 --> 00:38:46,520 Hey! 356 00:38:46,520 --> 00:38:48,240 He is doing much better, since it's been part of the program. 357 00:38:48,680 --> 00:38:50,720 Huh, what program is that? 358 00:38:54,000 --> 00:38:56,200 Shall we go to the playground? 359 00:38:56,200 --> 00:39:00,240 Um, maybe Santos later, right? And could Perhaps we can talk about this later? 360 00:39:01,240 --> 00:39:02,160 Shall we have a beer? 361 00:39:02,160 --> 00:39:04,000 I want a Coke. 362 00:39:04,000 --> 00:39:05,400 Can Santos have a Coke? 363 00:39:05,600 --> 00:39:06,920 What about Lilith? 364 00:39:07,400 --> 00:39:10,600 She found a really cool shared apartment. with a roof terrace and all that. 365 00:39:10,600 --> 00:39:12,200 And no, there is only one apple spritzer. 366 00:39:12,200 --> 00:39:13,880 Okay, you heard the boss. Apple spritzer. 367 00:39:16,000 --> 00:39:18,000 Julian invited me to an art opening. Does anyone want to come along? 368 00:39:19,400 --> 00:39:20,200 Wow! 369 00:39:23,960 --> 00:39:26,280 Uh, yeah. Yeah, it looks really nice. 370 00:39:26,920 --> 00:39:27,720 I'll go with you. 371 00:39:27,720 --> 00:39:28,520 Seriously? 372 00:39:29,840 --> 00:39:32,840 If only Luis could look after Santos. 373 00:39:33,120 --> 00:39:34,240 Who will look after Santos? 374 00:39:35,560 --> 00:39:36,480 Papa! 375 00:39:36,560 --> 00:39:38,000 Hey, that's it. 376 00:39:38,000 --> 00:39:38,800 Do you want a beer? 377 00:39:38,800 --> 00:39:39,640 No thanks. 378 00:39:39,640 --> 00:39:42,880 It would be nice if you could maybe contact me first. You would ask if you had a shortage. 379 00:39:43,400 --> 00:39:44,320 I am his father. 380 00:39:45,120 --> 00:39:47,640 I don't think that's right now. The right moment. Would you like a coffee? 381 00:39:48,520 --> 00:39:49,320 Okay. 382 00:39:49,320 --> 00:39:50,120 Hi. I'm Vincent. 383 00:39:50,120 --> 00:39:50,920 Hey. 384 00:39:53,040 --> 00:39:53,840 Here. 385 00:39:53,840 --> 00:39:54,640 Thanks. 386 00:39:59,320 --> 00:40:01,600 What does Lilith actually say about this? that she was thrown out of her room? 387 00:40:01,600 --> 00:40:02,600 I didn't throw her out. 388 00:40:02,600 --> 00:40:04,840 But I want to keep my room. 389 00:40:04,840 --> 00:40:06,280 Of course you can keep your room. 390 00:40:07,320 --> 00:40:08,160 Hey. 391 00:40:08,760 --> 00:40:10,040 I need to do some washing up here. 392 00:40:10,040 --> 00:40:10,840 And? 393 00:40:12,000 --> 00:40:14,560 Hey, should we go home right now? Dad made pizza. 394 00:40:14,560 --> 00:40:16,720 No, I want to stay here. 395 00:40:16,720 --> 00:40:18,600 But hey, it's Father's Day! 396 00:40:18,600 --> 00:40:19,880 I want to stay here. 397 00:40:19,880 --> 00:40:23,040 Santos, look, we still need to do this Unpack all the boxes here from Luis. 398 00:40:23,040 --> 00:40:25,440 When you come back, It's really, really nice here for you. 399 00:40:27,200 --> 00:40:30,200 Come on, go with your dad now. They have pizza there. You love that, don't you? 400 00:40:31,400 --> 00:40:32,960 Shall we go into the children's room? 401 00:40:34,000 --> 00:40:34,760 Come on, Santi. 402 00:40:34,760 --> 00:40:36,160 I want to stay here! 403 00:40:36,160 --> 00:40:37,240 Santos. Hey, hey, hey! 404 00:40:37,240 --> 00:40:38,040 Mama! 405 00:40:38,040 --> 00:40:38,840 Calm down! 406 00:40:38,840 --> 00:40:39,640 Mama! 407 00:40:39,640 --> 00:40:40,400 Santos, hey! 408 00:40:40,400 --> 00:40:41,280 Mama! 409 00:40:45,040 --> 00:40:46,200 What kind of idiot is that? 410 00:40:53,920 --> 00:40:54,800 Shall we toast? 411 00:40:58,680 --> 00:40:59,600 Welcome. 412 00:41:01,040 --> 00:41:02,400 What did I do to deserve you? 413 00:41:21,320 --> 00:41:24,520 The therapist has already abstinence was spoken of and 414 00:41:25,640 --> 00:41:27,160 They recommended it to me again at AS. 415 00:41:28,640 --> 00:41:30,480 But I thought sex with me was okay. 416 00:41:31,080 --> 00:41:34,320 Yes, that would be it too, but it triggers me. 417 00:41:35,680 --> 00:41:37,040 When I have sex, I want more sex. 418 00:41:39,800 --> 00:41:42,040 And how long will we do this? 419 00:41:43,200 --> 00:41:44,080 Ninety days. 420 00:41:46,680 --> 00:41:47,480 Clear. 421 00:41:48,280 --> 00:41:49,240 That's not so bad. 422 00:41:49,720 --> 00:41:50,520 Um. 423 00:41:51,680 --> 00:41:52,720 No, we can manage that. 424 00:42:04,880 --> 00:42:06,600 Why are you even watching this? 425 00:42:07,360 --> 00:42:09,880 Because Hitler is the only one, from which I can't get an erection. 426 00:42:19,760 --> 00:42:20,920 Are we still allowed to kiss? 427 00:42:23,000 --> 00:42:24,000 I believe so. 428 00:42:45,480 --> 00:42:47,040 I'll read a little more. 429 00:42:49,760 --> 00:42:50,560 Okay. 430 00:44:02,600 --> 00:44:03,800 We are now on day eleven. 431 00:44:05,200 --> 00:44:06,000 And it's going well. 432 00:44:08,600 --> 00:44:11,760 And just twelve days ago I would have had anyone, The person who told me this was declared crazy. 433 00:44:13,320 --> 00:44:14,640 But I hardly ever think about sex anymore. 434 00:44:34,440 --> 00:44:35,240 Hi. 435 00:44:35,800 --> 00:44:36,600 Hey. 436 00:44:37,120 --> 00:44:39,240 I'll be gone again in a moment. I'm just popping in to get something. 437 00:44:45,160 --> 00:44:45,960 Hello? 438 00:44:47,640 --> 00:44:48,760 Is Luis there? 439 00:44:50,280 --> 00:44:51,720 I am his dad. 440 00:44:54,360 --> 00:44:55,360 I, um... 441 00:44:55,760 --> 00:44:56,560 ...well, Marie. 442 00:45:04,200 --> 00:45:06,080 Dad, I told you so, You should wait downstairs. 443 00:45:06,360 --> 00:45:07,360 I forgot. 444 00:45:08,400 --> 00:45:10,720 I'm just quickly grabbing something. You stop right here. 445 00:45:11,840 --> 00:45:12,760 We're leaving soon. 446 00:45:16,240 --> 00:45:17,640 I'll be right back. 447 00:45:23,280 --> 00:45:24,680 Do you perhaps have a little cash? 448 00:45:25,560 --> 00:45:26,600 Yes. 449 00:45:27,200 --> 00:45:28,000 Thanks. 450 00:45:31,040 --> 00:45:31,960 Is this for him? 451 00:45:31,960 --> 00:45:33,600 Yes, he doesn't have any more. 452 00:45:35,960 --> 00:45:36,760 Thanks. 453 00:45:38,320 --> 00:45:39,400 I'll give it back to you later. 454 00:45:41,680 --> 00:45:43,640 Okay, we're off then. 455 00:45:43,920 --> 00:45:44,720 We'll leave it here. 456 00:45:45,680 --> 00:45:47,080 I don't come home that late. 457 00:45:48,320 --> 00:45:50,000 Uh, yeah. Bye! 458 00:46:14,800 --> 00:46:15,600 Oh God. 459 00:46:17,000 --> 00:46:20,160 I uh... Is it okay, What if you see me naked? 460 00:46:23,120 --> 00:46:23,920 Yes. 461 00:46:24,680 --> 00:46:25,560 Yes, that's perfectly fine. 462 00:46:30,120 --> 00:46:32,720 I was just wondering if I'm beautiful. 463 00:47:47,680 --> 00:47:48,600 Fuck it all. 464 00:47:50,440 --> 00:47:51,240 I believe... 465 00:47:53,480 --> 00:47:54,760 I think we'll stop here. 466 00:48:06,760 --> 00:48:07,720 Where are you going? 467 00:48:39,480 --> 00:48:40,280 Luis? 468 00:50:02,920 --> 00:50:06,520 This contact person is temporarily unavailable. to reach, but via... 469 00:50:22,960 --> 00:50:24,400 Are you serious? 470 00:50:37,680 --> 00:50:40,640 How can you do that to me? You are so disgusting. 471 00:50:47,960 --> 00:50:50,480 Marie? Is everything alright? 472 00:50:52,520 --> 00:50:53,680 Do you know where Luis is? 473 00:50:54,600 --> 00:50:56,760 How did you come up with that? 474 00:53:23,840 --> 00:53:26,400 Mom. I'm hungry. 475 00:53:27,240 --> 00:53:30,040 I don't have time right now, honey. Just have a corn waffle. 476 00:53:31,440 --> 00:53:33,160 But I want pancakes. 477 00:53:33,560 --> 00:53:35,840 Yes, I'm almost there. Give me one more minute. 478 00:53:38,320 --> 00:53:40,240 What are you doing here? 479 00:53:40,800 --> 00:53:42,960 Santos, I need a minute. Just one. 480 00:53:43,600 --> 00:53:45,160 only one! Get yourself a Eat a corn waffle and go play!